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Family Values
FAMILY VACATION I’m on vacation this week, bumming around the beaches of North Carolina with my immediate family. This is an annual occurrence, and we have rhythms and patterns of behavior that we follow. But this year, my high school best friend and her family also joined us. And the whole experience has me contemplating…
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The Myth of Improvement
I’M STILL MENTALLY ILL I realized this week that it’s been a while since I wrote about mental illness. So long, actually, that you might have found yourself wondering: “Is Ashleyne still mentally ill?” Why, yes, in fact! I am still mentally ill. And it’s looking like that will be true for the rest of…
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How to Get Back into a Habit
I honestly think that getting back into a habit after you’ve fallen off the wagon might be one of the hardest things to do. Well, after childbirth, obviously. And breaking up with a really nice person. And finding complimentary things to say to a middle schooler about their band concert. (“Great job ending the song at…